Not being a native northerner, I am slowly becoming accustomed to the bitter temperatures and learning how to dress properly. The thermometer reading twenty degrees understandably frightened me, and the kids and I spent a lot of time, energy and tears struggling into our heavy winter coats and gear every time we left the house, and then more time, energy and tears buckling seat belts over the poofy coats. Then, we would roast in the car after the heater kicked in, and have to deal with all the gear when we got inside wherever we were going.
I had an epiphany when I heard from a few other moms who relied solely on light fleece jackets, hats and mittens throughout the winter.
Really?
Is that legal?
It turns out there aren't any official laws about such things, so I've completely embraced the concept. No one is going to get frostbite walking from the car to the school/store/zoo/etc.
Through trial and error, here are the loose guidelines I have arrived at for staying warm. (Obviously, its different if we plan to actually spend time outside for any length of time)
a. Over 30 degrees, only light jackets required. You can wear it or carry it, your choice.
b. 10-30, light jackets, hats, and mittens required. If you choose to take off the hat or mittens after I put them on, you will have a cold head and hands, your choice.
c. Under 10, the works: heavy coats, hats, mittens.
d. Under 0, suggested long johns under your pants, though not required.
Zippers are easier, car seats are more bearable (and even more important: safer!), and smiles are more plentiful.
(And yes, the warm coats are always stashed in the car in case of emergency. Don't worry Dad!)
We also tried an outdoor snack the other day. It turned out great!